Making him think things through

So i was on the phone with my sister and she asked how my boyfriend was doing and i remembered somethings he told me this weekend....He was talking about how things are running better at the house now that everyone has a list of chores and helps keep the house clean. He started to talk about how He and the guy were gonna build a brick oven outside and we can have brick oven pizza! I was like ok i'll believe it when i see it. I don't think he has really thought this through. I don't know how to build a brick oven, but i'm sure it takes more than just bricks and mortar.... Then he starts talking about how they are thinking of getting a "family car" I'm like they already have a car, by the way the woman doesn't have a drivers license, but he says something about getting a car together and it being a diesel car and he can use it to come see me....I'm like whoa there buddy not a good i dea to go in on a car together with these people! It gets better! Then he's talking about how they are going to till up half the yard and make it a real working farm and by next spring....Thats where i cut him off and said now you're going to be here through next spring??? Are you thinking about me at all? HELLO!!! I am not going to continue to drive all the way up that fucking mountain to see you every weekend and stay in that nasty house with all those people! So you see he needs me to keep him grounded and out of "dreamland" If he's just going to think of what sounds good for him and not think about how its going to make me feel or how it would affect me then we will have a major problem!